patty, how long has it been since you posted about being over "needing" a man and being happy on your own. please go back and read your posts to see what you were thinking then. men online can make themselves out to be "George Clooney", if they want to. goodlooking, charming, articulate, etc. it is very easy to sit in front of a monitor and tell someone what they want to hear. very, very easy. too easy.

he could be looking for someone to support him..he could be looking for someone to abuse.....people are online, by the hundreds of thousands, looking for something that we don't think they are looking for. please, please, please, rethink this. please go slow.

it it sounds too good to be true, it probably is....love, pat