Mellors... here are my kid's words to me because I told them the truth about their other parent:

David, age 8: I know he's an ***, but he's MY ***. Stop raggin' on him to me!

Karla, age 12: I wish you had let me find out for MYself what an *** he is. I SEE him be an ***, you TELL me he's and *** and it hurts TWICE!

Chuck, age 30: What you said about my mom was way out of line! There was no call for it!

Now ask yourself if this is the response you want from your child, Hun.

I agree with WW. Tell him ONLY what he wants to know at the moment. His questions will get deeper as he gets older. PROVE to him by your ACTIONS how much you love him. Don't hurt him!

This isn't about you... it's about YOUR SON.