BR COKEN RELATIONSHIP WITH SON, can anyone adivise what to do, son has broken off relationship with his family, no one really knows why, accused his dad and I of not letting him go to university, did not approve of his wife etc, none of which is true, we dont understand we used to be so close, but he has become more withdrawn, also know that him and his wife have started going to swingers clubs wife swapping etc, so heartbroken he was our world, have slowly been stopped from seeing our grandchildren which is heartbreaking as we used to see them everyday, but are not really part of their lives anymore, his brothers and sisters are so upset, he is the oldest of six and always been a great big brother, I sent him a letter with his birthday card, telling him how much he and his family mean to us and we will never stop loving him, and how sorry we are if we got things wrong, as we dont know what we have done we would love to talk to him to try to put things right, but we got no response, everyday is like a greivingday, somedays I just cry all day, as I lost my mum when I was 17 and feel the same pain over my son, but I am grieving for him in a different way, my mum fought to stay with us, my son has chosen to leave our lives whilst we are still alive and that hurts to much any advise on what to do next to heal our relationship of deal with the grief we be most welcome.