Myzen, I'm not upset like alot of ppl would consider upset. When I still feel angry about it is when I think how desperately hurt she could've been.

It scares me. We won't talk about this again until next monday. At that point, her father and I will decide if she/he has given her an appropriate consequence for her actions. We'll take it from there. I think I was just in shock that she was going 82! It scared me. One thing my daughter said is, "mom, I know that you get upset, and get over it. That's why I wasn't too afraid to tell you." It made me feel good. It's a true statement. I was frustrated as well because I had to send the baby with his parents so that we could go to court. That worried me greatly. I was scared because I had NO clue as to what might happen. With PTSD, I have to try to predict everything. Thank you so much for your input. It's always appreciated.
WI-WOW @ $350! her's will be about 250 then i'll bet. i'm glad your insurance didn't go up! i'm hoping ours won't as her points will drop off at 18. i just wonder if insurance companies have to abide by that??? we'll see. yep, hers is a V6. i drove it home on the interstate and it was so smooth and tight that i couldn't guage how fast i was going. i explained this to her at length before she drove it. she was being a typical happy go lucky kid and wasn't paying the attn that she needed to be. it's going to cost her. by the time all is said and done, i don't think she'll do it again. she's paying for this ticket...somehow.
thank you again!
kd