I do exist. I have the right to exist. It is time to start living like I do.
ABSOLUTELY!!!! When you get right down to the core issue it doesn't matter what your boss, husband, children, parents, or neighbor thinks if you don't value yourself nothing else matters. You want respect, well start at home, respect yourself! Accept that YOU are allowed to make decisions (right/wrong/indifferent) based upon YOUR needs and desires. You do not have to justify or rationalize them based upon someone else's actions. Doing so allows someone else to be in control of your life.
I hope that leaving your husband does start you on that path that will allow you to say "I will not be treated like this by anyone". Not by your employeer, parents, T, clients, nor children.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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