Lovebirds, I am sorry those situations haunt you. I used to feel that way before I moved out of my parent's house. My dad wanted someone to cut up my meat because I am left-handed & he thought it looked too awkward when I was doing it. He was always constantly telling me how to do things & what I was doing wrong. It upset me then but now I know he was only doing what he thought was best for me. He was helping his daughter because he probably couldn't or didn't want to see she didn't need it. Since you deal with physical issues, people are going to try to help even more but probably don't know how. I am sure they don't think you are stupid. Maybe if you get involved in another physical activity & they all start trying to help, you can try outright telling them what would help you the most like standing beside the wickets & that you will let them know if you need anymore help. Or maybe "thanks but I've got this." I am sorry you are frustrated. Try to remember that they probably weren't helping because they think you are stupid. They just wanted you to have fun & not get left behind which can happen when you have vision & walking limitations. And just because you have those, I certainly don't think you are stupid. I hope you feel better.