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Originally Posted by sanityseeker
There ya go! Add to that... while you obsess over what he is thinking and intending you loose sight of what you expect, need and want from him. You put yourself second to him. You are not equal in the relationship. You are second or otherwise last. Powerless by default. Powerless by choice. Powerless to him. No wonder you feel vulnerable hey?!
How do you change that status? He can't give you your power back. You have to walk in your power and know that from a place of power you can be disappointed but you can't be broken.
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Thanks Sanity
I will try to keep the power that I had found in myself over the past 9 months.. I am a good person and I am lovable and i deserve all the happiness that I can possibly have
And you seem to have your communication skills back
Love the last paragraph.
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