Naturefreak, there are just people who can't be bothered with more than the own, tiny world, and even that is more than they can handle. The tend to leach off of whoever will let them and "Not notice" when others need their help. I'm soo sorry that those people are in your life right now. Their behavior says way more about them than it does about you, dear man. They are like horseflies; hurtfull, annoying and insignificant. HUGGGGGGGSSSSSSSSS!!!!