I'm hoping nobody is offended by this but I don't understand the whole speaking in plural thing. if you make a post...if it's all of your alters talking and you use the word "we" and you are all in agreement...does'nt that mean you are integrated ? Aside from that, is'nt using the word "we' or "our" enabling ? I want to disable my alters, not acknowledge them. Except in art for some reason. To me they are the enemy.

You;'ll have to forgive me. i am new to this DID stuff. My alters are not the person who is speaking to you now. Someday they might be a part of me. They behave seperately from me. I will say "he" or "she", but not "we". Having this is hokey enough. the whole plural speaking business makes it seem even hokier. Do you feel it makes people take you less seriously ? People don't believe me now. If i started the "we" biz, I think my credibility would be knocked down a few pegs lower.

What has been your experience ?