 Those within me find it easer to us plural. For one thing we had to go so long in being told that we are not real or accepted by outsiders and even at time within the group. That to us it is a way of ackowledging the different points of view and opionions. When you accept those within you begin to realize how diverse you are to each other and that they each have their own needs to be healed. Later whe healing has come to those within it is a sign of passage that you are able to do things as a whole and in agrrement with the whole group.
We hope that makes sences we are to the point that we feel more comfortable ackowledging the whole more then outsiders are. That is part of the stigma of being different form those around you.
This comes when you find ways to accept your self and those within you. How you do it will decide how quickly you progress and the peace that come from self acceptance and not needing to conform to the general public.
Good luck and we send you safe thoughts from all of us.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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