Hello & Welcome, Kyrene3!
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I also encouraged him to get help but for someone whose studying psychiatry he doesn't believe in it for himself, especially not medication.
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Apparently, alcohol IS his medication.
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...I refuse to marry someone whose just going to grow up to be like my dad is.
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Good for you! I applaud your attitude.
I sincerely hope you and he together can find ways to save him and your relationship. Ultimately, though -- and this is just my opinion, if he refuses to accept help, you are
not obligated to "cure" him.
PsychCentral Article:
Alcohol and Depression
PC Article:
Why Alcohol and Depression Don't Mix
PC
Adult Children of Alcoholics Forum
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