Thank you for your post, darkpurple. There will be a delay in my posts so it might look like I've posted to one person when it was the person before them.

The "get over it" thing. It's funny, because I am over it. The alters don't seem to be. I think probably because they were used so often it created pathways in the brain into an auto function. But yes, when i was younger, the whole "get over it" statement was annoying as heck. ( I seem to be doing well with changing swearwords to less offensive words...wooohoo! )