I, piggysmile, was a perfectionist too.

I think my perfectionism was mostly attributed to my selfishness and desire to please all people.

I didn't like to commit a mistake because I wanted others (my classmates, church members, teachers, friends, cousins, and even parents) to show how good I was and low they were. I always wanted praise because from it do I only get social satisfaction.

At the same time, I also wanted to please all people whatever the cost might be---stress, bad health, hurt feelings, etc.

Now, I'm giving myself some space. I'm learning my limits yet do my best despite them. I'm teaching myself not to feel bad when I make a mistake as long as I do my best. Finally, I ask God to give me strength and hope.