I'm really sorry kangels I hate men and yours seems to be no different to most. he was cheating on his gf with you. he isn't reliable. he's in love with whoever he is with at the time he is with them.

he doesn't want the new gf finding out about you because that would end it for her and he is the one who likes to be in control of situations. his verbal (txting) abuse makes it clear that he is uncomfortable and scared of her finding out.

I don't think he is planning to come back to you so hey, text away and use up your free texts and let him explain why he's getting so many until he has to change his number. She deserves to know what a creep she is living with, and she IS living with him if she stays over every night.

I wouldn't let him get away with it, but that is me, I'd be on the phone to the gf as soon as I could to let her know what a wanker she's living with and how he cheated with you as soon as her back was turned and I'd tell her that he said he was going to dump her and go back with you

Megan