Oh by the way, I'm very flattered that you remembered what was going on earlier this year. So yes back to my question, I guess I don't trust him. I suppose that is the bottomline. By the way, we are in our early 30's. Does trust have anything to do with not feeling loved/appreciated/taken for granted? It's going to sound strange but when he acts sweet to me, loving, supportive, gentle, caring and considerate I feel like I can trust him. When he acts otherwise (rude, offensive, insulting, vulgar etc.) I feel very weary of him and his intentions. It makes me think he is "up to something". The only threat that stands out is this "Sophie" friend of his. That's why I ask. Thank you guys again for reading/posting and providing feedback.