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Originally Posted by ChipmunkGal
Oh by the way, I'm very flattered that you remembered what was going on earlier this year. So yes back to my question, I guess I don't trust him. I suppose that is the bottomline. By the way, we are in our early 30's. Does trust have anything to do with not feeling loved/appreciated/taken for granted? It's going to sound strange but when he acts sweet to me, loving, supportive, gentle, caring and considerate I feel like I can trust him. When he acts otherwise (rude, offensive, insulting, vulgar etc.) I feel very weary of him and his intentions. It makes me think he is "up to something". The only threat that stands out is this "Sophie" friend of his. That's why I ask. Thank you guys again for reading/posting and providing feedback.
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I am more concerned about his treatmet of you, than this Sophie person. I would say that If he acts rude, offensive, insulting or vulgar to you... then everything else is null & Void. If you two are not going to treat each other like queens and kings, who is going to? I say, that unless you are looking to raise and train a man (which cannot be done) then this whole relationship needs to be reconsidered. There are men out there that would NEVER think of treating you in this way. You deserve that. What difference does it make if he is "sweet and loving" to you today... if he is the rude, mean and insulting tommorrow? Again, I say, that unless u are only there for the rollercoaster ride... reconsider carefully.