Ty guys. Sanity, I started today, working on the mirror thing. I made myself stand and look in the mirror. I spoke outloud to myself ( sounds crazy) reminding myself of all the differences and that I am NOT my mother and that I am me and the only one in the world exactly like this....did that for as long as I could stand it, then came back a few hours later adn did it again....I hope it helps....

Yo, thans so much for the big hugs....they are needed and appreciated!!