I think that it is actually good practice to learn to not worry. We can't have instant guarantees about all of our concerns. This worrying comes with the having issues territory I think. I had it. I learned, however, that I can put it aside and not worry about it. You can have this conversation with your T and work it out. Please have faith that you can have this conversation with your T and that you will work it out. You know, I think this comes from the lack of communication in dysfunctional families that we all experienced while growing up. Nothing was disscussed. Healthy people discuss things and things work out. This is something that we all can learn.