I think one can be healed in that one can gain coping skills to help us when the pain is to great. Your tragedies and losses have triggered you pain again but it will settle in time. Hypnosis i have heard can help some but i don't know really how affective it can be. I was going to try it out for someone i love but my T didn't think it would work much. I still say it wouldn't hurt to try though take care