i wonder if your H might be interested in meeting with this new T so he can get on the same page about your therapy also. it seems like you carry a lot of anxiety and guilt about going to therapy (with this T and old therapists) due to your husbands perceptions about its usefulness. im wondering if having a supportive husband might actually facilitate your being able to move from needing T so much to getting your needs met in RL? just a thought .