I had my therapy session and whataya know. She said I don't know the situation between him and his wife, and it is NOT my problem and NOT my job to think of his wife's feelings. She said at the time we're also clearly not in the point where I should worry about finding it out, so I don't have to ask what this is or where is it going. She said he probably wouldn't know anyway, and that's the most likely reason why he hasn't just said what he wants from me, but that he is obviously smitten and doesn't wanna let me go.

Well, I totally felt better I can chill now and be patient, no need to rush things...