>>When I divorced, i made sure that I would not do what my mother did to me.. I didn't follow the rules on "weekend" visitations... I told my son's father he could call our son anytime.. He could see him anytime.. And I never ever called it visitation.. A father does not "visit" his son. A father spends time with his son...

Radio, just wanted to say how impressed I am with you. I know that can be a hard thing to do... to be able to put aside very very strong personal feelings for the overall good of your son.

I hope your ex appreciates this, for the sake of your son, and that he holds the same sense of responsibility and ethics as you do.