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Sep 04, 2010, 06:22 PM
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Member Since: Jun 2009
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lynn09 writes:
You must EMBRACE them - let them run to the safety of your open arms, gather them up and hold them close, comfort and console them, tell them its alright for them to feel as they do, reassure them that they are safe now and that everything is going to be okay - be the mother to those within that they never had - be the mother to those within you that you have been to your own children. It's not about what your abusers said they/you did or did not deserve, it's about what they/you NEED - what all of us NEED - to be loved, cherished, accepted, valued, and respected. And no one, dps, is better qualified for that job than you becaues no one knows better than you what those within have suffered.
Oh dps, her words broke my heart for you and those within. But the last about NEEDS is so incredibly true. And you, dear dps, are strong and capable and warm and loving and will guide them on the road to recovery holding them with comfort, consoling and letting them know it is safe now
((((((((((((((((((dps)))))))))))))))))))
Last edited by DancingAlone; Sep 04, 2010 at 06:23 PM.
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