http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http...01.htm&h=505f0 i thought i would look on facebook and see what they have about borderline personality..i would never join a page on facebook for i would never want everyone to know my business,,i was just curious ,, anyway i read this and i am in shock !! yeah its like me but it sounds so horrible and coniving...i never realized this ,, its like a black widow spider or something,,,it feels i have every reason to feel what im feeling when im feeling it and i never knew i was so selfish !!! how can someone who has so much love for others and is always trying to please actually treat another in that way ,, so after reading this any man would be smart to stay away from me ,,, wow,,i will end up a lonely resentful old lady,,, i feel horrible ,, wow................idk,,they say there is hope but it takes a long time...............