sweetie, love is a tricky emotion. It doesn't get easier as you get older. What you feel in that respect is normal...but...if all these emotions are tying you up in knots...maybe YOU need some space. It has been my experience that the only real trouble I get into is when I ignore my instincts. Yours are screaming for your attention. Spend some time really lisening to your heart. Make a decision, and stick to it. Good luck.

Cynthia Ryan