thankyou for replying. Sometimes my instinct that he wants space, or that he is bored. But its like i know he loves me but there is something niggling away at him. Maybe i am paranoid, my friends who have been farely supportive think that he is the perfect boyfriend and that its just in my head and where i have become so paranoid it is all me thinking these things. But what do i do to help myself to get this sorted out. I am not the ahppy person i used to be. And i really want to bring it up but then everything is fine but this paranoia won't budge. I love him so much so you know and i know this isn't a life lasting relationship and he is only 17 i just can't be sure. And i don't know why i am so paranoid. But is is eating away at me! thanks alot Emmax