It was nine days later after this post that the married man talked to his wife. Surprise surprise. I guess it went better than he expected and apparently she is moving......I don't know....I am not sure now what role I am supposed to play in this. I want to be there for support but how?

Regardless It finaly happened. One step closer to something.

I am probably just as surprised as the rest that he actually talked to her. NO he didn't fess up to an affair. I wouldn't either not until after the divorce....why complicate things further. he will have to eventualy owe up to it but why hurt the kids?