I'm so sorry. (((((zoo))))) You finally trust someone and then she breaks your confidence. Zoo, I find it very strange that people would spread this very private thing around like wildfire. Like your mother--why wouldn't she call you first before speaking with anyone else? Why would she call your XH, of all people? Something like SA is so intensely personal--I do not understand why people would talk to anyone about this except for you.... How are you doing?