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Originally Posted by sunrise
I'm so sorry. (((((zoo))))) You finally trust someone and then she breaks your confidence.  Zoo, I find it very strange that people would spread this very private thing around like wildfire. Like your mother--why wouldn't she call you first before speaking with anyone else? Why would she call your XH, of all people? Something like SA is so intensely personal--I do not understand why people would talk to anyone about this except for you....  How are you doing? |
I think my mom called my ex because she wanted him to corroborate the story. Of course, that's me, thinking she didn't believe it. Which is exactly why I didn't tell her when it happened 20 years ago.
He didn't know anything about it, so whether she believes it or not I don't know. I don't talk to my mom, and won't, so she was probably right in thinking that she would get more info from him than from me.
I just won't talk about it, with any of them. I called my T when it first happened and I was pretty freaked out, but she reminded me that I don't have to talk to them. I don't have to do anything about it, or have anything to do with it.
My sister has left a couple of messages apologizing. I'll talk to her, eventually, but not right now.
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