That doesn't make any sense to me either. If you qualify then doesn't that mean you are? Who knows what your therapist is thinking I would go see an actual psychiatrist, in the phone book they will have psy or psychiatrist after their name, MD also usually. You don't want a PHD (psychologist), the usually only do therapy. You can have BPD and others like Bipolar, depression, ptsd....etc. A lot of people have more than one diagnosis. One is probably more prevelant but they it's not always the case. So you need to see a psychiatrist. Get the second opinion or third even if you are still unsure. You have a right to know.