{{{{Sept}}}}

Like LMo, I can also imagine things from your son's point of view. And I'm also wondering what prompted that response from your granddaughter... who wouldn't want two cakes for their birthday! Unless someone said something manipulative to her. I don't know, maybe that's just how children are... I can't really speak from experience.

But I think you have to move on with this, which it sounds like you are trying to do but they won't let you. So the most you can do is make sure you take care of yourself.

I also agree that meds are a priority! See what you can do... LMo's idea of asking them to inform you if there is a cancellation is a good one. Your "freedom" is also a priority. Being stuck here with no means of getting places on my own I am really suffering for it. Hope the idea of asking someone else will work, or whatever it takes to get that path finished... and your drawers too!