oh!! That reminded me of something I just found out about last week. slydial.com, it is perfect for those of us with phone issues. I haven't used it yet but some of my fb friends were talking about it. It's free, basically you call their number and then put in the number of the person you want to be connected to and it will take you straight to their voicemail, no risk of them actually answering. It only works on US cell phones, but maybe that will help you, Jexa!

I can really see myself using that to call T when I just want to hear her message but don't want to actually talk to her right then.