LOL Susan, that's one thing you don't need to be AFRAID of! I've learned that I can't depend on Jerry for much except to get my feelings hurt and to be dissapointed. Like I've said over and over on this board "WHY, WHY, WHY do I let him stay??????" There's got to be some sort of payoff.... It's a truly sad state of affairs if the answer is "it's better than being alone."