well I know how upsetting it is when T forgets to write. We have had something similar. Its harder if Crystal is sensitive, hurt feelings make everyone feel sad. It sounds to me that you guys need to try and communicate a bit more if thats possible. I know its a hard thing to do, but maybe you vicki could take the lead as you seem to know most of what is going on. Can you think about that. Maybe talking to each other a little to try and help each other with hurt and angry feelings?

Im not saying those feelings are wrong. Having feelings is very important. Its just that you all might get a bit of releif if you can try to talk to each other just a little.

Atg