BNLsMOM!!! That is so much at the same time. You have a good idea there with the DBT radical acceptance! I've not gone through the course, but am familiar with that part from others talking about it. "It is what it is". One of my favorite sayings, btw. It's so true. Channeling your energies into those small but meaningful things that are do-able is an excellent idea. Wishing you peace and strength.