Oh Jexa. I SO get the phoneaphobia thing!! I haven't done it with my T, but for other things, I actually have this friend who will call place pretending to be me and do my "business" for me so I don't have to. Can you say "enabling"? She is a great friend by the way! I HATE using the phone!! With email, I always think the person can read and respond at their leisure, but the phone seems so intrusive. I hope you get a response soon.