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Old Sep 08, 2010, 04:19 PM
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Hey there Sophia, just a thought:

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Everyone tells you that you need to work on yourself before you can date.
True. I both agree and disagree. If you're not aware of the problem, and are unwilling to work to get yourself better, likelihood is your problem will interfere in the relationship. Since you're not willing to make it better, well.. it'll fall upon the other person in the relationship and probably mess things up.

In your case, I think you're trying to get help, and you're trying to get better. Although its harder to start a relationship if you have a mental issue, or a physical one for that matter, it is not impossible. I can say that 100% sure. My boyfriend and I are going strong over 2 years after we met/ got together. I have gotten WORSE while with him, and BETTER. He has seen the very WORST of all my mental problems. And our relationship is still here. So it IS 100% possible to have a relationship, but you DO need to work hard, and be willing to try your best to take care of yourself.

So please don't give up hope
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