granite...it's so freaking hard when people quit on you...it makes you second guess everything. But I don't think she's frustrated, I think she's just trying to keep the ball rolling (so to speak). If she sits there and doesn't try to help you communicate she is being selfish...because she's taking your money for nothing. So she admitted that, and tried something, good for her. I don't think it has anything to do with you being selfish.