I think most people would help anyone in a ditch but ....it is possible if say someone else was in a ditch not too far from me they would get help well before me. I am easy to forget. Say you and I met Lou I have no doubt you would like me but a day later I doubt I would cross your mind again. That holds true all over the place in my life. I can be bleeding and starving and people just dont see it...and if I say something...they wish me luck while I go without food..Thats like an example I ate today..Does that help you better understand?