LMO I am liked by just about to everyone I meet and am a very kind and helpful person but in the grand scheme of things I have needs and wants too and I do not have anyone who DOES for me...all I get is passed by or prayed for or well wishes but these same people could be the instraument of God so to speak and maybe share a meal or help with gas or a medicine..When I had money I use to buy people meds and just GIVE and now I don't seem to get...I did not DO to get back..I posted on this in someone elses thread but jeeze it would be nice to be on the HELPED end of the stick for once at least till I could get back on my feet again..I just get hit with it. I know what you mean on people who are nice and kind being more remarkable but I have helped many in my lifetime and kind or nice was not required need was....I dont know I just dont seem to matter except when someone wants..I even was stupid enough to buy a wedding gift for some girl who FAKED her wedding...same girl I bought meds and food for.....now that I can use..shes nowhere..thats just 1 example