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Old Sep 09, 2010, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by lonely and scared View Post
i stayed at my boyfriends last night. we didnt do anythung but kiss and cuddle . i got judge though because it is only been a week since we first got together. i am not surehow to react to it, are we going to fast.
the thing is though is i have let him know that we have to take things at my pace because of a traumatic event, he is ok with it.
((((lonely and scared))))

I don't think that there is any reason for anyone to judge you. If it felt right staying at your boyfriend's house then why not? As you said, you didn't have sex, it was just a bit of kissing and cuddling.

I remember telling my mum that I wanted to go on the pill... that was a frightening/exciting thing to ask. I didn't need her permission, just wanted to keep her in the loop as to what I was up to. Maybe you can talk a little more about with the people that have judged you?
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