that darn anger. seems to get the better of most of us. how do we deal? we cant really hold it in that will just hurt us in the long run. i guess how can we positively turn anger around to benefit us. to the person in the car i suppose we can cuss under our breath and focus more on ourselves and our driving so we can be prepared for the next rude person( there will always be the next rude person) its harder when the anger is result from or directed at someone close to us. we have to be carefull with our reaction because we can easily hurt someone close. taking a moment to let ourselves feel the emotion and then composing ourselves can keep the peace. anyway i hope things get better and you are able to stay calm when the world throws you a bit of irritation.