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Originally Posted by SunWillComeOut2moro
i think you hit the nail on the head with the "defensive" observation! thank you for putting it into that light... tho i disagree that there is nothing to be done about it  i'm a big believer in the power to change, and i believe that i can change myself, especially if my issue is rooted in insecurity. i may still want to make sure that i communicate clearly, but i don't need to over explain EVERYTHING... lol, thank you very much for your reply tho, and it does feel good to realize that i am not in fact the only person who does this...
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Well, I agree. Anyone can change, and we can change ourselves. However, I think you will still (for the most part) feel the need to explain more than might be needed. I don't see a problem with explaining yourself though, and if people don't like me for it then tough. I just know that for myself, I won't ever be able to get out of that. I will always feel the need to explain why I did whatever it was I did, and to have a reason for it. Maybe you won't always have to, though. I hope you find a way to not have to at all because life is much easier without dealing with that, haha.