Is it possible to be bi, but not necessarily bisexual???
... I am asking, because I am married to a man, and have a girlfriend.
Both of whom I love dearly. I love them with all my heart, but part of me feels like I am asexual.
It is next to impossible for me to get turned on, and on the rare occasions that I do, I lose it at the drop of a hat.
I have a very strong emotional connection to my girlfriend, and am currently working on my connection to my husband.
I love to cuddle, hold hands, kiss, etc... all the romantic stuff, but the act of sex is just something that... I am not really into.

What the hell is wrong with me? Am I just lying to myself to think that we can have meaningful relationships with almost non-existent sex?