You make it sound like you have been looking for years and years in the desert :-) I found my prince when I was 35. If you are not ready yet, then you're not ready yet. Think of the experiences you have been ready to try, the discussions you have had, etc. It takes time and lots of experience. If they're not right for you, you want them to leave; doesn't matter if you like them, they're not the one; I like candy but I know not to eat too much or I'll be sick/it's not good for me. That's what it boils down to, what's good for your future?