im finding things dificult because i have a friend who i like to have a chat to know and again but am very careful what i say to her because her son is the father of a persons baby who i speak to, they are no longer togeather but i speak to them all, i try not to get into a conversations involving anythimg to do with any body else because i have and or had enough priblems of my own to listen to ppl bad mouthing over ppl , i didnt even do this when a person betyrayed me and interfered in my marriage , so when this young mother decides to get her baby christend she asks me not to say anything to the babys dad or the babys gran whos my friend , this was last night so while out shopping today i recieved a txt asking me if she was getting baby christend on such such date , i felt that what ever i do i would betray someone i felt phisicaly sick by being put in this poistion i txt back and asked were the information had come from and left it at that letting the gran come to her own conclusions, it know makes me feel like i am playing piggy in the middle i dont need this as i got to work on my own problems