ACQPL...i am speaking personally but i believe others would feel the same,,when someone is reaching out, i want to help,,to keep watching a person ignore the advice everyone is giving is stressful,,lack of emotion can only lead to worse things for you..when someone is suffering(whether you feel it or not) and others want to help, it causes pain for the ones who want you to get help..the world is full of pain and on this site it seems people genuinely want to heal,and help others heal..as a member of this forum you become part of a community of sharing and caring,,something many didnt have as a child..this sharing in my opinion helps,,when someone is trying to help but watching as a person falls deeper, it does hurt us all,,i imagine many/most people here wish they had more love/help/support in their life,,we are offering that to you,,to watch you keep that state of mind makes me feel stressed/pain of watching another suffer...even if you dont feel the urge to call you know it is the right choice..if you still have two hands then remember,,one is for helping others and the other hand is for helping yourself,,use it to make that call and see the doc,,it will be worth it..