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Sep 12, 2010, 11:11 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2007
Location: Colorado
Posts: 9,092
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Yoshi I'm agreeing with Rhiannon and Perna 
For what its worth there ARE guys out there who like a person for who they are not just their looks. My boyfriend met me at a mutual friends birthday party. I was there with a friend. At the time he was in fact MORE attracted physically to her (he told me this later), but I was the one he followed home to get contact information, because of personality. He was also SO understanding about taking time for things. Even KISSING he was willing to go slow on.
So there ARE guys that respect those boundaries out there. and as a girlfriend you DESERVE that type of respect.
I'm proud of you for saying no. Don't give in to him. I'm sorry that you love him, and that in return he is not respecting you 
One thing I've learned is that you ocan't change people, they can only change themselves. I would suggest taking some time. See him just a bit less so that you have some time to think for yourself. If you want to stay with him PLEASE be strong and don't give in to his manipulations 
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Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.
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