Yeah, your therapist seems to be making more accusations than actually helping you, but I wouldn't know.

It's my personal opinion that your boyfriend's mother, like most people, should've been more sensitive to another's feelings, and unfortunately there are too many inconsiderate people in this world. That said, we all make mistakes and things can be said without malicious intent, and so we need to give people the benefit of the doubt once in a while.

You say you're sick of it, so I assume this is not the first time? Perhaps she, again, like most people, is incredibly insensitive? If so, I wouldn't think it necessarily makes her a bad person, but I certainly think there's room for effin improvement. I'm likely biassed because I've had far too many people say ridiculous things to me that were either out of context, immoral, unjust, ouright rude or offensive. Idiots have only made me more defensive, to be honest with you.

In my opinion, we may be more sensitive than other's, but in all honesty, who gives a f--k? We all possess our own boundaries; this fact should be appreciated and respected, because we are all different.