I am husband, been married for 19 years to my "highschool" sweetheart, I have been suffering from anxiety and depression for over 3 years now. I feel a lot of guilt and shame because I never want to do anything!! I continue to work fulltime, because I have to!!

I would suggest that do the best you can to have a life.......there isn't much you can do, and it's not your fault that this has happened, the worst thing you can do is make him feel guilty for being sick.